In 1991 sexual harassment came to the forefront of public attention in America. United States Supreme Court nominee Clarence Thomas was accused of sexually harassing law professor Anita Hill. It was a case of her word against his and the evidence presented in the televised hearings did little to shed conclusive light on who was lying and who was telling the truth. On October 15, the United States Senate confirmed Thomas’ nomination by a vote of 52 to 48. The narrow margin in the vote tended to mirror American public opinion of the case. A poll conducted by Newsweek indicated that 39% of Americans believed Clarence Thomas was telling the truth, 22% thought Anita Hill was telling the truth, and 39% weren’t sure. How do so many people look at the same information and come to different conclusions? Simply put, the facts have no bearing on anything; it is your perception of those facts that is important.
How we judge the traits and characteristics of those around us is an essential part of our everyday lives. Social Psychologists call this “person perception” and it influences how we feel about individuals and groups, and how we act toward them in even our most routine daily interactions. The task involved in person perception is to form judgments about an individual’s personality, which will allow us to predict their behaviors and know how to interact with them. Needless to say, we frequently find ourselves with limited information from which to make those judgments. This limited information leaves our judgments vulnerable to a variety of errors and biases. Nevertheless, we enter into every interaction with some preconceived ideas of that other person’s characteristics and act accordingly.
Our perception of other people as well as the world around us, our reality, is influenced by a variety of factors. Stated another way, we all live in our own subjective reality. We construct our version of reality from the knowledge and experience we gain through education and social interaction and from the values and beliefs we acquire through socialization. In photography, you can use a variety of filters to control and influence the types and amount of light that reaches the film (or these days, the electronic media used by modern cameras) and ultimately produces the image. In much the same way, our “reality filter” which is made up of our individual values, beliefs, knowledge and experiences, strongly influences the way we interpret the information we receive from our senses. Our emotional state may also exert considerable influence in our perceptions of individuals and situations.
As mentioned earlier, socialization begins virtually at the moment we are born and that lays the groundwork for most of the values and beliefs we carry throughout our lives. Specifically, gender socialization begins very early and strongly influences how we interact with the opposite sex. The very nature of our relationships with our male and female caregivers has a lasting impact on what we believe to be appropriate or inappropriate in those cross gender interactions. Our view of what is an acceptable or unacceptable gender role develops in much the same way. Human beings learn much of what they know about social norms by simply observing those around them. Much more is learned by early experimentation with a variety of behaviors and the resulting reaction of the others around them. Parents who encourage their sons to play football and their daughters to play with dolls do much to perpetuate traditional views of male and female stereotypes.
While much of our knowledge comes from formal education, our experiences interacting with others and our observations of the interactions of others also have a considerable impact on our view of our world. Still, the values and beliefs we hold tend to color our interpretation of these experiences and observations. While isolated experiences with individuals from other groups may tend to contribute to the development of stereotypes, typically these experiences only serve to confirm our previously held assumptions of those groups. Interpretations that conflict with or contradict our assumptions are frequently discounted or sometimes even ignored. This is especially true in emotionally charged situations. For instance, we often look for hidden motives when someone we dislike does something nice for us or ignore evidence that a loved one has been insensitive to our feelings.
Clearly, it is obvious that our perceptions are the result of a very complex and very subjective process. Not only are there considerable differences in the way men and women are socialized, there are also considerable differences between individuals within each gender that strongly influence our perceptions of reality. We are all different, possessing different sets of values and beliefs, knowledge and experiences, all of which makes our view of the world around us unique. Much of what we see as appropriate or inappropriate is a function of the cultural environment in which we live and fortunately, there is some consistency among individuals as a result. Still, while some similarities in perception exist, each individual’s perception in any particular instance is a result of the situation, the other individuals involved, and the emotions attached to the situation, all of which is viewed through that individual’s “reality filter”.
Most of our perceptions are subject to a variety of errors and biases, at least to some degree. Sometimes our judgments of others depend as much on preconceptions and prior knowledge as upon objective information. In other words, our perceptions of others are not always based on facts, but are sometimes based on what we expect to see. To complicate matters further, our perceptions of others affect our behavior toward them, which may well influence their behavior toward us. For example, if you perceive someone as cold and aloof, you will likely interact with him or her accordingly and their response to you will tend to confirm your perception of them as cold and aloof. In this way, our perceptions tend to have a self-fulfilling quality and we tend to see what we expect to see.
When we look at the issue of sexual harassment, it is clear to see that it is a complex issue that is very strongly tied to each individual’s perception of the situation. Each situation is different and seemingly identical facts in separate situations can lead to totally different interpretations by the parties involved. For example, an individual is likely to perceive sexual advances in a more positive light if those advances come from someone they see as a potential mate. On the other hand, if those same advances come from someone they dislike, they are much more likely to be perceived as sexual harassment. Add in the respective gender of the individuals involved, the relative power differentials between those individuals, and the relative severity of the behaviors involved and the issue becomes increasingly more complex and difficult to interpret.
The legal implications of sexual harassment exert increasingly more pressure on managers to investigate and appropriately deal with sexual harassment complaints. If clear agreement on interpretations of each situation is difficult for the individuals involved, it is doubly difficult for individuals who are not directly involved in the situation. In addition, these incidents often boil down to a question of one individual’s word against another’s. It becomes clear that the involvement of another individual adds to the complexity of the problem and the ultimate resolution of the complaint becomes tied to the perceptions of the individual asked to investigate and resolve the complaint. That individual’s view of the situation, knowledge of the law, impressions of the individuals involved and personal views of sexual harassment in general, have considerable impact on the outcome of their investigation. In short, their perceptual errors and biases may well become the issue in subsequent litigation. This tends to underscore the importance of effective evaluation and training programs for managers who are in a position to have to deal with sexual harassment complaints. If we take this line of thinking one step further, it is easier to understand why there is so much inconsistency in the rulings of the various courts that get involved in these cases.